Lifestyle BDSM

So as most of you should already know, I have been into the BDSM scene for about 7 years (Didnt realize it, until about 3 years ago). I absolutely love it. But I recently figured something out, that I never cared to even think about before.

Here is the problem with being into BDSM. Ok, wait, let me re-phrase that.

Here is the problem with being an attractive 26yr old girl into BDSM... People do not take you seriously. They see you as a good lay, possibly a "F&$!buddy".. but most people dont see you as the type of girl to have a relationship with, the kind of girl you would take home to momma.

I guess in a way, that makes it easier on me in the long run, because I just have to find that person that appreciates every key aspect of who I am, and I know I wont be fooled by imitations..

But at the same time, it's such a downer, because guys will pretty much say anything to get in your pants, and there have been some rather convincing suitors.. and Im not sure Im ready to take that leap of faith.. you know what I mean?

Anyway, comments welcome... What do you think?

xoxo
jess

Comments

Anonymous said…
try fetlife.com they have lots of people its like a kinky facebook.
Jessica Cha said…
I'm on fetlife. thats part of the problem.
Anonymous said…
A bad compromise is better than a good lawsuit.

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